unknown

The most precious gift

you can give to someone

is the gift of your time and attention

''unknown"

Love is an Ability

instead of following the unwritten modern social rule,
which is posting impressive photos and then writing another caption explaining and proving perfection exists in our life through pics on our social media feed,
let's talk about real love.
what is real love?

love, is not a feeling.
Love is an ability.
It's like you love to fly, but you can't.
It takes time to diligently learn and work really hard to be able to do that.

To truly love, you need to learn and go places far out your comfort zone to finally see that the person you love really do feel you love him / her.

Constantly hurting one another is not love,
abusing each other is not love.
Love is not  a feeling.
Love is an abillity that you acquire by opennes,
humility, realization that you can be wrong and that you can change,
acceptance, and consistent efforts and hardwork.

real love should be empowering.
Real love, should be freeing.
Having someone who understands all of this,
is the only thing that I need more than anything.

Note :

Nice words from Marshanda.

I Will Always...

I realize, 

no matter where you are or what you doing or who you with.

I will always honestly, truly, completely love you.

I never wanna hurt you, because it's hurt me too.

I love you so much, Goty.

note : 

Thank you for calls me today.

we get another argue,

but I know there's love growing up up up and up.

between you and me.

hug you tight.

from me, your argue partner.

***listening song "I'll keep you safe" by Sleeping at last

The Fault in Our Stars

“Some people don't understand the promises they're making when they make them," I said.

"Right, of course. But you keep the promise anyway. 

That's what love is. Love is keeping the promise anyway.” 

― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars.

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“There will come a time when all of us are dead. All of us. 

There will come a time when there are no human beings remaining to remember

 that anyone ever existed or that our species ever did anything. 

There will be no one left to remember Aristotle or Cleopatra, let alone you. 

Everything that we did and built and wrote and thought and discovered will be forgotten 

and all of this will have been for naught.

 Maybe that time is coming soon and maybe it is millions of years away,

 but even if we survive the collapse of our sun, we will not survive forever. 

There was time before organisms experienced consciousness, 

and there will be time after. 

And if the inevitability of human oblivion worries you, 

I encourage you to ignore it.

 God knows that’s what everyone else does.” 

― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

....................................

“You gave me a forever within the numbered days, and I'm grateful.” 
― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

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“But I believe in true love, you know? 

I don't believe that everybody gets to keep their eyes or not get sick or whatever, 

but everybody should have true love, 

and it should last at least as long as your life does.” 
― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

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“I'm in love with you,

 and I know that love is just a shout into the void,

 and that oblivion is inevitable, 

and that we're all doomed 

and that there will come a day when all our labor has been returned to dust,

and I know the sun will swallow the only earth we'll ever have, and I am in love with you.” 

― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

I Love You More Than Myself.

In life...

We can fail to be a wife,

but never fails to be a mother.

every second,

you will be remember everything.

And you will whispering 

you proud of me.

That's enough for me.

I love you, 

more than myself.

Selamat hari Ibu,

untuk seluruh Ibu hebat di dunia.

Mole and destiny.

A mole is destiny in action.
Moles are destiny's little miracles
because no person can predict
where or when a mole will actually appear.


Or even finally end up on their body.
Moles appear to be random.
But if moles are truly random,
how can two different people,
two different stranger,
have a mole in exactly the same spot?
Maybe it's destiny.



You see,
moles and destinies are no different.
If you wait to meet someone with the exact same mole,
it's almost impossible.
That's why we need to write our own destiny.


But,
what you will do, if you can find it?
He will be your destiny?


Note :

Remember our moles?
I have in my left side and you in your right side.
And you said, checked yours.
And you sending me your mole picture.

We are couple in pairs and we have couple moles.


^-^ I love you

Woman Heart is a Deep Ocean.

There is a time when I just want to 

touch your hand and continue my days,

because I knew you were always with me.

Eyes will tell many words.

And people says,

woman heart is a deep ocean.

You will never easy to find everything's inside.

until you love her without asking many things.

Love doesn't need explanation,

love only doing, giving and showing.